China has the custom that is troubled by bridal chamber since ancient times. In the past, because be familiar with not quite before marriage of a lot of new people even each other is not acquainted, the night of newly-married wants them to live in same space, mentally may feel uneasy. Be troubled by bridal chamber, can let new personality remove barrier through public game undoubtedly, disclose is broken shy " window paper " . And today, if the house-owner that make a hole expresses beatific desire to new people. In this one process, new personality hard to avoid can appear awkward occasion, it is so before bridal chamber, new people must prepare a few action to answer " reduce ability surely " .

* should know people will make bridal chamber real intention above all is to cherish wish goodly, will cross the hour with this one the best and happy life happily jointly with new personality. The close friends that comes round to be troubled by bridal chamber to these so must be recieved enthusiasticly, cannot the manner is cool.

* is in when be troubled by bridal chamber, must not put intentional manage pressure, people calls you performance program, sing dance, it is for appreciation by no means, just be active atmosphere stopped. Loosen as far as possible when the performance so, do not put intentional manage pressure.

* appears to avoid bridal chamber embarrassed, bridal bridegroom is the most meddlesome plan a few programs first, if sing, dance, dancing or small magic, jest the small program that oneself are good at.

If * does not search to give performance program to also never mind really, you are OK precondition a few confuse language, couplet, and the person that come to an agreement or understanding does not answer to go out performs a program, such can ground of make use of an opportunity to do sth changes the program to others body.

When * is troubled by bridal chamber, should tell commonly tell Luo Man history, you might as well manage beforehand main threads of an affair, had thought the content that should interpret.

* is in bridal chamber, bridegroom, bride wants to cooperate actively, coordinate the operation. Especially bridegroom, always must notice to be bridal rescue sb from a siege, do not let her be immersed in embarrassed condition.

If * encounters the person of a few vulgar taste to force new people to say privacy, say cussword, make a few embarrassed motions in public even, new people must sober, exercise restraint treat. The elder that you can seek a few enjoy high and command universal respect or leader will check they, avoid by all means cannot be borne silently, also cannot quarrel with the other side.

If * has individual innocent guest to be troubled by later more, still do not have the meaning that wants right-down. So OK and euphemistic the earth's surface narrates new personality oneself became tired, must not show the door directly.
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