"Do not fall husband home " say again " sit " . It is Chinese southwest what still circulating up to now in a few minority is consuetudinary. This kind consuetudinary be more special in marriage common. 　
　　
"Do not fall husband home " be a kind very old consuetudinary. Universal in a few nations of and other places of Chinese Guangxi, Guizhou, Yunnan popularity. The expressional form of common of this one marriage is: The bride after marriage does not live in husband home, return woman parent to live however. Just return husband home between busy season or holiday date, the help does a few farm work, return a married woman's parents' home again afterwards. This kind " do not fall husband home " the life. After should insist to be pregnant all the time or giving birth to the first child, just return husband home.

"Do not fall husband home " consuetudinary, circulate in minority not only, ever also flowed in the Han nationality row. 50 time around, areas of a lot of the Han nationality of Chinese Fujian Province and Guangdong province, popular this one consuetudinary. If Fujian benefit brings the woman of the area, the 3rd day after getting married returns woman parent to live namely. Reach husband home when on holidays only tent. If be pregnant,just can grow husband home later. According to the investigation of anthropologist Mr Lin Huixiang, the woman after newly-married of this one area grows the time of a married woman's parents' home, little criterion 23 years, 56 years, many just a little 10 years. The time that grows the woman of a married woman's parents' home to reach husband home mostly very short, and it is to reach the home towards evening, morrow day does not shine to leave. Accordingly some husband and wife marry to return each other to not be acquainted for years. Some places, the wife returns marital home, must not live together with the husband, meet those who suffer woman companion laugh at otherwise. This kind of unreasonable marriage undesirable customs causes a lot of tragedy, some chaperon people make an appointment even collective suicide, express revolt.


"Do not fall husband home " the area of the Han nationality of be current, the effect that gets feudal idea mostly is very profound. The sister that so folk has not get married often builds his daughter organization, be like " 10 sisters " , " Jinlanhui " , " comb oneself younger sister " wait for an organization, namely " do not fall husband home. the woman is organized. In Chinese southwest in a few minority, if the people such as Chuang, the Dong nationality, Miao Zu, the Bouyei nationality, the Gelo nationality, the Yi nationality, the Hani nationality, the Achang nationality, the Pumi nationality, Brown a group of things with common features is popular also.

"Do not fall husband home " consuetudinary, and expressional form is varied. Area of happy Yao Shan of Guangxi smooth fruit professes. Cloth Gansu. Chuang, when the bride gets married, do not wear new clothes, wear ferial dress only, a Chai Dao must be taken on the waist, a kind of tailor-made fastigium bamboo hats are worn on the head. This kind of cap is in " do not fall husband home " during, be like now and then when answering husband's family to help, as a kind the mark must be worn. In Le Yao Chuang, of get married get married after holding get married ceremony that day, rest a little. Had eaten a meal, bride with come round to send close associate to return a married woman's parents' home together. The following day, the bride goes again alone the bridegroom's or husband's family. 3 post are taken when going sweet, 3 copper cash, carry a water to give the bridegroom's or husband's family to the side of water. Return a married woman's parents' home again afterwards. After a month, choice auspicious day is lived in to the husband one in the evening. After this, when having busy season only, just answer husband home help with farm work, live 9 evening. When after giving birth to the first child, just answer husband parent to live. In the Dong nationality of region of Guangxi grand resort, popularity is called one kind. Receive filature. consuetudinary. Also be. Do not fall husband home. common of a kind of marriage. When girl of the Dong nationality gets married, according to the tradition consuetudinary, want give a dowry to a daughter a filature is done dotal. But this filature does not send toward man home when the girl gets married. Should when the girl gets married after 3 years two, when. Do not fall husband home. When the life ends, hold certain ceremony, receive filature a the bridegroom's or husband's family. This stylish woman just begins to live for a long time in the bridegroom's or husband's family. When receiving filature. Expedite a few women by man home, meal of on the belt a few packets of polished glutinous rice goes to woman home. The bride's side asks photograph of a few women to accompany, hit tea-oil tree to receive a visitor. When filature is received, the bride's side should be answered give meal of a few packets of polished glutinous rice to serve as gift. After filature is received, that evening test-drive, the elder brother's wife in the sisters-in-law in the home, husband's younger sister and stockaded village, sisters see bridal craftsmanship. After a Xi is troubled by. New son's wife just calculates the person that became husband's family truly. 　　
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